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You folks are devouring OG :p
Diplomatic alliances mean nothing when there are regions up for grabs in the middle of invasions apparently
If we are both weak then there will be no recovery. A strong Fronen insures that Old Grehk survives. If your lands are left to fester and rot more rogues will rise and assail your realm. We can hold and maintain them, you clearly cannot. We are doing us both a favour, feeding Fronen and making sure that the monsters that spring up in those regions are taken care of. Deal with defending what you can. It is quite clear that Old Grehk can do nothing more than complain on the forums or in the ruler channel regarding the situation instead of actually doing something to reverse the problems assailing its own realm.
And it will cause a good war if we beat this invasion & Fronen decides these lands are nice and keep them
Why not just consolidate in the south away from the people who dislike you? Ivory Vale's former territories look awfully cozy.