I don't think my character would have cared so much about infrastructure destruction, gold/military looting, or region TOs, other than the fact that others said they would not do those things and pointing out them not keeping to what they said. As you and they have said, a war must be fought somehow. I was rather surprised at the limits Perdan/Vix (mostly perdan, vix was more vague and less-limited) put at the beginning of the war, but they were the ones to propose them, not Eponllyn. So now complaining about being expected to keep to what they said they'd do is not taken kindly. Anyway, that's all hindsight description/analyzation and rhetorical argument/propaganda now that it's spiraled out of control.