The first mistake is playing in Luria, a realm with as many (when not more) regions than nobles, and yet basically a continent away from anyone else. The day Luria gets in a war will probably be the day one of its neighbors decides to put it out of its misery. And given the culture of Dwi's realms, I don't really foresee that happening.
A better bet would be in one of those realms that neighbors Astrum, like Arnor or Westfold. Or Astrum itself.