I've recruited a friend of mine to play the game, and may soon have another. This leads to the issue that we'll obviously want to play on the same realms, and could lead to some unfair situations for other players.
What are some general guidelines about keeping the game fair? To what extent should we discuss politics, or our character's future plans or motives OOCly? Finally, how allied should we be? Would helping eachother at every turn be considered unfair gameplay? And, would marrying our families IC do anything to get around that issue, while also making the alliance public?