Ziode was getting involved in the current conflict, though, which gave me hope . . . Cathay just makes me sad, though. I'm not on the ruler channel, but the impression I've gotten is that they've done a bunch to stop a number of possible conflicts.
Though Kindara stopping us from killing C'thonia was annoying, but I can't blame them, because that's a balance of power issue and simple self-interest rather than killing conflict out of hand. Not that we had enough nobles to control C'thonia's lands, anyways.