Peace has to come from both sides. When one side demands something and you say "no, we'll give you nothing, take it or leave it" then you're not negotiating, you're just inviting their armies to come and take what they want. Of course the alliance was too greedy, I'm not denying that, but just as they were greedy Fronen was irrealistic in their capability of keeping/feeding those cities.
In my eyes, you're lucky you're rid of Vozz, a city that had been starving for months. Wudenkin is far from it's max population, in fact the only city you seem to have been able to feed consistently is Vur Hagin. You could've tried getting a townsland or two in return, a mountain region, a promise of food, military aid, gold.. but you just said "no". Well, that's the moment Fronen lost her right to complain about the position she's in in my mind. The alliance was arrogant, but Fronen was just as arrogant in refusing to negotiate, in trying to use the daimons as saviors.
As for the current wars going on. I don't think Enweil kept any force South, negotiations are going on at the moment and Rio was fighting her own daimon at the time. I don't know if Fronen was under threat of human attack but maybe if they would've negotiated they wouldn't be anyway. Don't go blame your defeat against the weakest daimon armies in... ever on the continuation of human wars. That is as much on yourself as it is on anyone else.
Anyway, I never intended to get so serious on this. We all had a chance to fight daimons on the field and win for once and some took it while others didn't. I'm not comparing with anyone, this is just simple fact and something that both Fronen and Enweil should've been capable of. I've seen/fought in battles against both realms and you've both got the force to field an army capable of that. It really was just a matter of bringing 7-8k CS, enough banners and/or uniques and not mess your linesettings up.
Bu now it looks like that time is over and it seems that OG is screwed...
The real invasion has begun.