I pretty much joined because you said it was boring and I wanted to change that. I just went in with a supportive but assertive attitude, said stuff, got quick reaction and I think we got things going. Most of it might of course already have been rolling and the urgency the war created obviously aided in that responsiveness. I mean, it's not like I'd come online to loads of AA messages but it definitely wasn't silent either. It's just hard to make a realm of around 10 people feel truly alive. There's simply not enough people to interact with.
Then, again, that also made it quite laid back and fun. I didn't have to say anything but I knew that I'd always get reaction when I did and that people cared. It makes you feel pretty important when you're only one out of 10 responsible for keeping the realm going.
And the responsiveness was evident in army movement as well, AA always impressed me for a realm it's size. But I guess we're back to Bob's huge unit then.
Now it's kinda different though we'll see how lasting it all is.
I suppose Jaune changed his way of ruling a bit (though I guess he was busy in your times, weren't it the last months of Darka?), he's definitely shared things on multiple occasions after recalling your complaints. But overall, I like Jaune because I know he'll stir up stuff. That's why I really wanted him to lead a BT realm again (aside from using his family claim to war Melhed.
). I still remember my first(and only? geez) ruling stint in OG with Julma Jaune, king of tiny Thal writing silly messages on the ruling channel provoking Enweil, demanding they'd suck his socks... Then going down there, getting killed in a duel till death.
Then swearing eternal vengeance upon Enweil for this "murder" with that character's son.
Aaanyway... you see where I'm getting at, as a realm, I know we'll have things to do with jaune as ruler. And that is, aside from the politics etc, still a lot of BM's fun for me.
Edit: Nevermind that "only", forgot Rio for a moment there. Sorry guys!