I still don';t understand why a "good' leadership should be one needlessly aggressive and eager to conquer. The game sets some limits, be it noble count or simply extension of the land: there are just moments in which it would be suicidal to start wars, so why would be consider pathetic a leadership that just tries not to create chaos out of nowhere?
Frankly on dwilight almost all realms are facing tmp last time I heard. This must mean something..
Yes, that none of them are doing anything interesting...
I probably didn't mention this before, but you don't have to start a war to avoid TMP. Maybe we could sticky that?