+1000
For every realm that sits and complains, another one spent their time figuring out how TMP works and what to do about it, and is doing just fine.
You think "everyone" is complaining about it. Wrong - Everyone who comes here to complain about it is complaining.
And what you fail to understand is that some realms are extremely favored over others when it comes to fighting rogues. There are none anywhere near D'Hara, for example, and if battles are not big enough, which they tend not to be, TMP is not staved off for long, if at all. Hell, we are talking about chasing away all the adventurers from our lands, because we never see rogues spawn. Who in their right minds would have wanted to have rogues spawn in their lands two years ago? Just thinking about it exasperates me.
Another example is Fheuv'n. It is in war. All it did was fighting, an average of a battle every two days. But when it stopped fighting a bit to takeover a rogue region, it then got hit by TMP as it was marching for war, forcing it to do a kamikaze battle it might not have otherwise done.
Furthermore, it also means that realms are way more vulnerable to bugs. Fheuv'n for example, again. When we got to Nothoi, we were gonna loot that place to the ground, as we easily defeated the defending forces. But a bug prevented us from doing so. This in return made TMP code hate us, because our battles were too small and we didn't loot enough. Now that we are in Rio lands, bugs are preventing us from looting *again*, meaning we have yet to have had any opportunities to loot in our two wars. How long 'till TMP hits us again? This is a small realm that is at war, fighting regularly, and it got the TMP notice and effects.
Some are "adapting" to it. Figuring out ways to deal with TMP doesn't mean that they are doing what would be the most fun. And it doesn't mean they are operating in the same context as others who aren't, and it certainly doesn't mean that TMP is contributing to the game experience.
As long as TMP remains so brutal, many people will complain, and rightfully so.